Hey bro... Sorry I didn't get in on this thread sooner. Back at the beginning on April I was making A LOT of progress in the gym especially the prior 4 weeks. I had this odd swelling in my lymph node that I noticed on the 8th of April the first time... By the 10th I was at my desk in my office during a meeting and feeling so light headed and had cold sweats. By 4pm I had a 102.5 degree fever and could hardly stand, then came the migraine. It was the WORST headache of my life. I spent the next day in the ER getting tested for mono, menigitis, flu, strep and yet my only symptoms were massive lymph node swelling (only the right one in my neck) and a fever, some mild pain. Within a
week I was getting prepped for emergency surgery and was told that I would be out of commission for about 3 weeks ( before I could return to work ) and 4-6 weeks before I could reasonably exercise again. Surgery went well, it was my first major surgery as well. They removed a tonsil and a lot of tissue that was necrotic in my neck. Pain was unbearable at times and the narcotics we're not nearly enough at times. That was exactly 17 days ago I went under the knife. I have been eating solid food and making my macros for 9 days now. I started my push/pull/leg return, heavy, last Friday. I've been back at work for over a week. Everything they said I couldn't do, I've done. I like the idea of a goal sheet.
Another thing I did was a gratitude list. It was a wake up call. I'm no longer 21, 10ft tall and bullet proof. I made a gratitude list. Thankful for my family and girl being there, thankful for good insurance, thankful for a solid surgeon. I made a goal list. My goal was to be back in the gym by 21 days out. I crushed it.
Now you and I have different surgeries. Yours is specifically more prone to exercise induced complications, but my point is, be practical, listen to your body and crush that shit dude
Worst case scenario, you have 6 weeks to heal and get mentally prepared for the onslaught to come.
Hoping for the best and quickest recovery possible!