Topic on girlfriend going to party without me?

[Jake]

Idk man.

Here is my situation.
Never been to a party probably never will. Don't like the enviorment don't like the drama. Childish nonsense and Il end up in jail.

I date people who are the same or similar to me.

Now why my relationship or relationships are for the most part great is because that mindset specifically brings a much more mature enviprment. It's just not even a concern because we don't deal with bullshit lol.

Now the trust thing. Idk it just cones naturally when you don't open up to elements that take away from it. We just have it.we trust eachother till one of us has done something wrong. The more you dwell and worry the more it will happen. Be confident and don't worry if she is truly who you think she is.

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you know what really sucks is the bars full of drunks and I am sober. Fudge that...don't need the bar scene in my life.

 

[Jake]

brother this is just part of being young... its not ideal, its never comfortable but its going to happen... the types of girls i was with, this always happened... i ended up marrying someone the complete opposite of this and ive never been happier but the point here is this, this is normal, you won't like it, she will probably be flirted with etc. and you just have to hope she's not the type that thrives on attention etc... don't let it eat at you, don't think too much etc... i know i always wanted to go out without any girl i was dating etc and it was to talk to whoever i wanted, etc... not everyone thinks like this or does this but it just depends on the person... dont be blind t things but dont jump to conclusions either... just be aware of everything etc... you will be fine but this is one of those things you could let eat the fuck out of you and it will only cause major stress etc...

right on D

 

[Trenrage]

I know what all ya guys mean. I just need to not worry and be secure. I think I'm just this way because I'm newer to relationships and I'm still younger and learning about life in general. Most of you are older then me and have gave me some great advice. Well I'll take all the advice given and I'll relax as good as I can tonight. Thanks to everyone for helping me out

 

[TX TERROR]

you know what really sucks is the bars full of drunks and I am sober. Fudge that...don't need the bar scene in my life.

No shit haha I'm with you there. We just find ourselves in the situation here and there cause of work events. I shouldn't say bar I guess it's more like upscale stuff. People are still jackasses though.

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[TX TERROR]

I know what all ya guys mean. I just need to not worry and be secure. I think I'm just this way because I'm newer to relationships and I'm still younger and learning about life in general. Most of you are older then me and have gave me some great advice. Well I'll take all the advice given and I'll relax as good as I can tonight. Thanks to everyone for helping me out

All you can do man. Just ride the wave haha. You'll learn how not to drowned as you go.

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[Trenrage]

All you can do man. Just ride the wave haha. You'll learn how not to drowned as you go.

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That's what I'm gonna do! If all goes well it'll help my anxiety if it comes up again. So it'll help our relationship if anything.

 

[MarkD]

This happened to me at my girls place of employment a week ago. Dude said some grimey shit, she told me and well now he wont even come into the office and makes his partner do all the talking and paperwork. LOL. The point being that you have to trust her to tell you things and to be a good person. If she was really put in a bad situation you know she'd probably hit you up right away to rectify it. Ricks advice is best though, I'm kind of a maniac with handling this stuff.

 

[DylanGemelli]

I know what all ya guys mean. I just need to not worry and be secure. I think I'm just this way because I'm newer to relationships and I'm still younger and learning about life in general. Most of you are older then me and have gave me some great advice. Well I'll take all the advice given and I'll relax as good as I can tonight. Thanks to everyone for helping me out

its all good man... you earned a lot of respect from me for just posting this in general... that could be something thats embarrassing to talk about but you handled it like a man and i really respect that a lot... i like how your listening and taking it in etc... you can always come to me for anything bro, i'll always be here to help

 

[Trenrage]

its all good man... you earned a lot of respect from me for just posting this in general... that could be something thats embarrassing to talk about but you handled it like a man and i really respect that a lot... i like how your listening and taking it in etc... you can always come to me for anything bro, i'll always be here to help

Well I respect a lot of you in this forum and I knew all of you would be cool about the topic and give some good advise to me! And I'll be sure to come to you for any help I need! You're the dude

 

[Trenrage]

This happened to me at my girls place of employment a week ago. Dude said some grimey shit, she told me and well now he wont even come into the office and makes his partner do all the talking and paperwork. LOL. The point being that you have to trust her to tell you things and to be a good person. If she was really put in a bad situation you know she'd probably hit you up right away to rectify it. Ricks advice is best though, I'm kind of a maniac with handling this stuff.

Yep my girl and I talked about it. She said she'd let me know if anything happened tonight and shed keep me updated. We had a good talk about everything and she wants me to pick her up when the party is over so I feel better now about it.

 

[Maxadvance]

I'm 53, and have seen a bunch of shit in Life and relationships. I will say this to you. She's not a kid, she's an adult and doesn't want or need a bodyguard. Attention from the opposite sex may be a negative to you, but it's not to her. If it gets disrespectful she and her girls are old enough and mature enough to know how to handle it. If she wants you involved she'll tell you. If you insist or push for you to go anyway, you will lose her or disappoint her and she will see you for what you are being, an insecure jealous guy and she'll start shopping for a replacement. Trust her and keep her, act insecure and lose her. Your choice.

 

[Cwrose1]

Jealousy is a female trait man remember that trust her until she gives you a reason not to and cut that bitch off you don't need that childish stuff in your life


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Well spoken bro! 100% correct

 

[Cwrose1]

I'm 53, and have seen a bunch of shit in Life and relationships. I will say this to you. She's not a kid, she's an adult and doesn't want or need a bodyguard. Attention from the opposite sex may be a negative to you, but it's not to her. If it gets disrespectful she and her girls are old enough and mature enough to know how to handle it. If she wants you involved she'll tell you. If you insist or push for you to go anyway, you will lose her or disappoint her and she will see you for what you are being, an insecure jealous guy and she'll start shopping for a replacement. Trust her and keep her, act insecure and lose her. Your choice.

I agree with this also, if you can't trust someone 100% why are you with them. When I say trust I mean not only to be faithful but to make wise decisions.

 

[BigBusiness]

Why worry about something you have no control over? Trust is one of the strongest bonds between two people, last to only love!! Without trust a relationship is shit and doesnt make either person happy and causes unwanted stress. Insecurity is a personal problem and usually occurs when one is not so confident of situation and jealousy is a cancer. My best answer is to love and trust her and be secure and confident in your girl!!! Knowing that she is with you and coming home with you. Besides you should take it as a complement when a guy flirts with your girl. It just means you have a attractive gf

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[cbbram00]

Why worry about something you have no control over? Trust is one of the strongest bonds between two people, last to only love!! Without trust a relationship is shit and doesnt make either person happy and causes unwanted stress. Insecurity is a personal problem and usually occurs when one is not so confident of situation and jealousy is a cancer. My best answer is to love and trust her and be secure and confident in your girl!!! Knowing that she is with you and coming home with you. Besides you should take it as a complement when a guy flirts with your girl. It just means you have a attractive gf

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[JM750]

Why worry about something you have no control over? Trust is one of the strongest bonds between two people, last to only love!! Without trust a relationship is shit and doesnt make either person happy and causes unwanted stress. Insecurity is a personal problem and usually occurs when one is not so confident of situation and jealousy is a cancer. My best answer is to love and trust her and be secure and confident in your girl!!! Knowing that she is with you and coming home with you. Besides you should take it as a complement when a guy flirts with your girl. It just means you have a attractive gf

spot on Brother.

 

[mastermolnar]

Yeah man. It fucking ticked me off. I can't stand pig fucking guys who play that game. A part of me does want to go with her tonight but I kind of just want to try not going with her and if all goes well it might help my anxiety in the future. But on the other hand I see your point on going with her to act as a protection. Because of I'm not there then there's not much a girl can do if there's guys disrespecting her. This is just kinda hard for me :/

Give her a can of pepper spray, a blackjack and have bail money ready for her

 

[worldbreaker86]

Give her a can of pepper spray, a blackjack and have bail money ready for her

This is exactly what I did the other day, when my wife went to a Trump protest rally, without me.

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[mastermolnar]

This is exactly what I did the other day, when my wife went to a Trump protest rally, without me.

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My girl will crack a skull. She doesnt take shit and she wont cheat. Shes the love of my life

 

[zeke]

My girlfriend trusts me 100%. Gives me a very very long leash. In response I would never consider doing anything to hurt her, and I give her a long leash. If you don't have trust then your foundation is built on nothing....just sex maybe...and that don't pass the long haul test.