I am not a dictator and i never would attempt to be... thats not who i am and thats not what i do.. everyone here has rights and the always have... how often do i say anything about what people are saying to each other? only when its out of hand but im so sick and tired of getting message after message, text after text, phone call after call about he said, she said lalallalalalala... like i said, i am NOT a fucking babysitter... does anything think its right that i am constantly waking up to bull shit non stop? do you think i enjoy waking up my mornings to that or to have people writing me saying they dont want to post or are leaving the forum because of nonsense going on? i can tell you this, like i said, im not dictator but when it affects the forum, the people etc. i dont give a fuck period, it wont go on, plain and simple... you guys know how fucking cool i am about things.. ive had disagreements with quite a few and how quickly do i immediately get over it and say that i already forgot about it... i dont hold grudges, i dont do shit unfair etc.. im here for everyone but if you shit on me or our home, FUCK YES im going to take action.. see with me, you have to push me first.. i dont ever start it but i will finish it... i never want to even have to go there and i always try to avoid it... the LAST thing i ever want is to be looked at like some prick who thinks hes special for running the place... i despise that shit so of course i wont be that person but if i keep getting pushed time and time again, what would one expect? i dont censor anything... fuck, give me a break... im the last one to do that... however if others are uncomfortable etc then of course i will say something on it... what person that didnt care would not speak up ? that doesn't even make sense... i care about everyone here.. i fucking love everyone here, even if we have had an argument... look, im not a bitch... i dont cry about it if someone says something fucked up etc... 9 times out of 10, we regret it or didnt mean it and get caught in the moment... i get that... i dont have feelings of a little bitch like many do... i cant stand weak shit... if you have feelings that sensitive then you will have trouble in life in general... the real world is cruel and you have to know how to get past that... i dont hold grudges etc... unless you just keep spitting in my face, then of course but thats not how it is... it will never be that way here.. i just finally got fed up with the nonsense and childish shit.. that's shit im not having and if thats an issue for anyone then i would say to just leave and find a fucking chatroom or whatever they do now and stick to that because thats not what we are here... that type of shit is a cancer to the forum and i wont have it... thats what this is about... not censorship or being a ruler etc.. its about nonsense that IS GOING TO STOP