I just buy it and tell her my gear came in don't take anyone near here, here, or here cuz I don't want any shit. As long as she can do whatever it is she does who cares. I pin in front of her and she'll even say shit like 'you look tired why don't you pin something'. If you gotta hide it from your woman you should ask yourself who's wearing the pants. If her nagging is enough to alter your behavior then she's already won. Keep in mind us guys telling you to tell her to STFU are older and established so our wives kinda appreciate their comfort levels enough not to nag about shit we're gonna do any way.