ok so the "friend" you speak of is actually you then right? since the urgency to justify big boned lmao either way it sounds like you are already going to do this like your "friend" has done cycles before and you know best from your arguments. so I think it is futile for you to actually hear what is being advised here. did you really come here to argue your point that you know everything after 10 or more people here have told you what not to do?
shit disregard both of yalls names are close my bad.