I find fit women with muscle attractive, for sure. That look is very appealing to me, and Obvioulsy I'd be drawn to that. However, as I've gotten older there's so much more than the physical, and if I were single again after 13 years of marriage I look a lot deeper than that. I'd take them up on a date for sure, but if there is even a hint of that self absorbed narcissistic behavior where they think their shit don't stink, I'd be done with it. That's a total turn off to me. They would have to be confident and humble, but not arrogant. I've been down that road in the past, and it does not turn out well. You end up feeling like, no matter what you do, you are never good enough for them.
I gotta say though, a perfect woman would be a gymrat with a nice fit body, who has her shit together and can take care of herself just fine financially, etc.....with her head screwed on right. You guys tell me when you find her though. I'll wait....lol