I've actually done that many times when guys ask me for a spot and I've seen them half assing stuff. I make them bitches work for it or they let that thing sit on their chest for awhile. Then I'll help pull it off. My number one rule cause my wife spots me is (don't get hung up) I don't want anybody seeing me like that and have to come lift it off me. Fuck that lol.
I pretty much agree with you there buddy. Shit drives me crazy